Perjalanan ke Pantai Timur ( Trengganu)

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Perjalanan ke Pantai Timur.( Pahang)

Baru-baru ni kami ke Kuantan,untuk hadiri majlis kenduri doa selamat dan perkahwinan Aizat ( anak sedara wife).Budak2 cuti semester,kami bergerak 2 kereta.Dulu muat 1 kereta,ni anak2 dah besor..kenalah bawak 2 kereta.

Masa bergerak pantas.
Ade 24,23,21,paling bongsu 18 tahun.
Ape yg nak aku coretkan adalah tentang family.
Aku dan wife dah separuh abad.
Tanggungjawab adikberadik kami mula lepaskan sikit2 kat anak2.Yang sulung perlu jaga adik2 bila kami berdua dah tiada.

Bila mereka memandu sendiri kereta ,secara tak langsung mendidik mereka(anak2) dari segi kesabaran,disiplin,tanggungjawab,kemesraan dan hal2 kebaikan.

Moral coretan aku ni..
Memandu sejauh 250km ni seumpama arus kehidupan .
Setiap jarak ,selekoh,simpang yg ditempuhi bak drama kehidupan.
Baik pemanduan kita.
Baiklah juga keselamatan kita.
Buruk pemanduan kita.
Nyawa dan badan jadi taruhan.
Harap anak2 dapat mendidik jiwa mereka.
Tentang kehidupan ini.

Wassalam
Ayahjo
1.1.2019 ( selasa)

Perjalanan ke Selatan

2018..

Assalamualaikum...

Dah nak masuk suku tahun..2018

Semalam dan hari ni bawa family bercuti ke Batu Pahat,Johor.Dah lame tak jejak Bandar Penggaram ni (nama lama ).

Last datang 2005,kira dah 13 tahun ...masa tu aku jaga projek kat KUITHO,Parit Raja..selalu jugak datang kat Batu Pahat ni.

Banyak dah berubah...

Walaupun pun pola ke penduduk Bumiputera tinggi di Daerah Batu Pahat ni,tapi kuasa ekonomi dikuasai non-bumi.Ape pun Tahniah Batu Pahat terus maju berkembang...

InsyaAllah..

Lepas ni nak ke Muar...

50 Soalan Proses menjejak SEJARAH leluhur keluarga.

Setiap dari kita punyai asal usul.Namun tidak semua dari kita yang mengetahui

perkara ini,kecuali diberitahu oleh orang tua kita.Berikut adalah penulisan dari

penulis barat.Sedikit pengkongsian untuk kita semua.

Ayahjo.

by Kimberly Powell

Updated August 16, 2017

A great way to uncover clues to your family history or to get great quotes for journaling in a heritage scrapbook is a family interview. By asking the right, open-ended questions, you're sure to collect a wealth of family tales. Use this list of family history interview questions to help you get started, but be sure to personalize the interview with your own questions as well.

50 Questions to Ask Your Relatives

1. 1]What is your full name? Why did your parents select this        name for you? Did you have a nickname?

1. 2]When and where were you born?
2. 3]How did your family come to live there?
3. 4]Were there other family members in the area? Who?
4. 5]What was the house (apartment, farm, etc.) like? How many rooms? Bathrooms? Did it have electricity? Indoor plumbing? Telephones?
5. 6]7]Were there any special items in the house that you remember?
6. 8]What is your earliest childhood memory?
7. 9]Describe the personalities of your family members.
8. 10]What kind of games did you play growing up?
9. 11]What was your favorite toy and why?
10. 12]What was your favorite thing to do for fun (movies, beach, etc.)?
11. 13]Did you have family chores? What were they? Which was your least favorite?
12. 14]Did you receive an allowance? How much? Did you save your money or spend it?
13. 15]What was school like for you as a child? What were your best and worst subjects? Where did you attend grade school? High school? College?
14. 16]What school activities and sports did you participate in?
15. 17]Do you remember any fads from your youth? Popular hairstyles? Clothes?

1. 18]Who were your childhood heroes?
2. 19]What were your favorite songs and music?
3. 20]Did you have any pets? If so, what kind and what were their names?
4. 21]What was your religion growing up? What church, if any, did you attend?
5. 22]Were you ever mentioned in a newspaper?
6. 23]Who were your friends when you were growing up?
7. 24]What world events had the most impact on you while you were growing up? Did any of them personally affect your family?

1. 25]Describe a typical family dinner. Did you all eat together as a family? Who did the cooking? What were your favorite foods?
2. 26]How were holidays (birthdays, Christmas, etc.) celebrated in your family? Did your family have special traditions?
3. 27]How is the world today different from what it was like when you were a child?
4. 28]Who was the oldest relative you remember as a child? What do you remember about them?
5. 29]What do you know about your family surname?
6. 30]Is there a naming tradition in your family, such as always giving the firstborn son the name of his paternal grandfather?
7. 31]What stories have come down to you about your parents? Grandparents? More distant ancestors?
8. 32]Are there any stories about famous or infamous relatives in your family?
9. 33]Have any recipes been passed down to you from family members?
10. 34]Are there any physical characteristics that run in your family?
11. 35]Are there any special heirlooms, photos, bibles or other memorabilia that have been passed down in your family?
12. 36]What was the full name of your spouse? Siblings? Parents?
13. 37]When and how did you meet your spouse? What did you do on dates?
14. 38]What was it like when you proposed (or were proposed to)? 39]Where and when did it happen? How did you feel?
15. 40]Where and when did you get married?

1. 41]What memory stands out the most from your wedding day?
2. 42]How would you describe your spouse? What do (did) you admire most about them?
3. 43]What do you believe is the key to a successful marriage?
4. 44]How did you find out your were going to be a parent for the first time?
5. 45]Why did you choose your children's names?
6. 46]What was your proudest moment as a parent?
7. 47]What did your family enjoy doing together?
8. 48]What was your profession and how did you choose it?
9. If you could have had any other profession what would it have been? Why wasn't it your first choice?
10. 49]Of all the things you learned from your parents, which do you feel was the most valuable?
11. 50]What accomplishments were you the most proud of?
12. What is the one thing you most want people to remember about you?
    

Bunga tak perlu berkata-kata.

Diam-diam bunga mekar,
Dalam diam ia jatuh,
Namun disini sekarang,
Pada masa ini,
Ditempat ini,
Seluruh bunga,
Seluruh dunia berkembang,
Inilah cerita sanubari bunga,
Kebenaran bunga itu,
Kemuliaan kehidupan kekal sepenuhnya
bersinar di sini....

Kredit@ Eric Peris
( A Flower Does Not Talk)

Kenangan Ayah@Apak

Tanggal 13.01.2018.
Genap 11 tahun pemergiannya.
Aku terasa macam baru.
Namun Allah menyayanginya.

Mudanya.
Dikorbankan jiwa dan raga.
Menjadi anggota keselamatan.
Special Constable jawatan diberi.

Tanggal 1954 berumahtangga.
Mula hidup bersama ibu.
Hidup sederhana.
Tanpa kemewahan.

Tanggal 1955 .
Apak dan pasukan diberi arahan.
Menjejak musuh dilubok Palawan.
Musuh terlebih dahulu menghidu mangsa.
Serangan kilat musuh memecah kesunyian.
Langit Langkap bergema dek senjata musuh.
Apakan daya ada yang gugur.
Ada yang  parah.
Nyawa apak dihujung tanduk.
Hanya dia masih bernyawa.
Menyerah diri atau mati.
Musuh memberi kata dua.
Qadha dan qadar Allah telah janjikan.
Akhirnya apak ditinggalkan.
Alhamdulillah nyawa dan badan masih bersatu.

Tanggal 1956
Abang sulong (abang hassan)dilahirkan.
Apak dan Mak gembira bukan kepalang.
Menerima cahayamata pertama.
Kerjaya SC diteruskan.
Hidup diberet Rendang Punggor.
Bumi Langkap yang bermandi darah.

Tanggal 1957
Bumi Malaya Merdeka.
Mak melahir kelahiran kedua.
Anak kembar dikurnia Allah.
(abang lan & abang lim)
Bermukim mereka di Sabak Bernam.
Apak ke Ipoh jalani latihan.
Tinggallah mak berempat beranak.

Tanggal 1958
Tanggal 1959

Bersambung
Ayahjo

Aku dan usia.

Bismillah..

Ku mulakan bicara.

Alhamdulillah ...

Kini Usiaku dah separuh abad.

Zaman bayi ,aku lalui..

Zaman kanak-kanak,aku lalui..

Zaman remaja,aku lalui..

Zaman dewasa,aku lalui..

Zaman tua,kini ku rasai..

Alhamdulillah..

Ya Allah..

Nafas ku ..

Hidup ku..

Rezeki ku

Zikir ku..

Amalan ku..

Ajal ku..

Ku beserah kepada Mu..

Allah Tuhan yang Satu.

Nukilan@ayahjo 50 tahun.